How To Be A Chick Magnet?

Flirting tips are not going to help you if you can’t attract women to you in the first place. You can approach women easily, but if you’re not attracting them to you, you’re really not going to get very far when you start flirting with them. So what is it that guys who get tons of girls do? Here’s my tips on how to get women to flock to you.

Pay Attention To What Your Body Language Says To Girls

When a girl approaches you or you approach her, she’s going to size you up in about five seconds. She’s going to make a judgement about you based on several things, including the way you look, the way you dress and even how you smell. Your body language plays an important part in attracting women, because this is what will make you seem approachable to her or not. Subconsciously, she’s reading your body language to know if it’s okay to go up and talk to you or not.

Make sure that your body language communicates that you’re a strong, confident man, who is also friendly and fun to hang out with. When you’re flirting with a woman, you want to make a lot of strong, masculine gestures and also make sure that you’re not stooping over – if you have poor posture, you’re not going to look confident at all. Make sure your facial expressions convey a happy, confident and fun to be around personality – if you’re scowling the whole time, no girl is going to want to approach you or carry on a conversation with you.

Have Friends That Are Also Confident And Fun To Be Around

Who your friends are and who is in your social circle really says a lot about you, especially to a woman. When choosing friends, know that your friends really show who you are, so you want to make sure that you and your friends have similar ideals. If you’re hanging around a bunch of bullies or jerks, girls are going to think that you’re a bully or a jerk, even if you’re not. Your friends should be just as nice and friendly to others as you are.

Learn To Love Yourself

Women want to be dating confident men – they don’t want to be dating a wuss. So you want to project an air of self confidence and to do that, you must truly learn to love yourself for who you really are. Know that each person is special and unique (including you) and each person has something they can offer other people that no one else can. Each person is an individual and no two people are exactly alike. Learn to love yourself and be confident in what YOU can offer, because it’s special!

How To Break The Ice

You’ve got the first five seconds down, but now you actually have to talk to her! What do you talk to her about? How can you break the ice without choking up?

Start flirting with her. Engage her in conversation. Start by asking her questions. Don’t just ask questions like, “What do you think about the crazy weather we’ve been having lately?” That’s lame. Ask her intellectual questions about her, things around you or things that matter to her. For example, ask her what she is passionate about. No, not what her hobbies are or what sports she plays. Ask her questions that really make her think, like, “What is it that makes you want to wake up every morning?”

Talk About Your Passions

While you definitely want to break the ice by asking her about her passions first, there’s probably going to be an opening at some point for you to talk about what drives you. Be honest with her and let her know what you truly love and what really makes you tick. Hopefully, you and her share some of the same passions or at least ones that are similar so you can start building some common ground, which is essential when you start dating someone.

However, you’re never going to know if you and a girl would really hit it off unless you’re completely honest about your passions and what you love, even though it makes you more vulnerable to rejection. When it comes to dating, women know that a man is risking rejection each time he is flirting with a girl or asks a woman out. You can really make a difference by revealing yourself to a girl, instead of trying to be the guy you think she wants.

Stay Positive

Girls always remember how they feel when they meet a guy. She may not remember exactly what he looks like or exactly what he said, but if he made her feel great, she’s going to remember him and either be waiting for his call or be dialing his digits herself. If a guy makes her feel amazing, she’s definitely going to want to be dating him.

If you make women feel great when they’re around you, they’re going to remember you and want to hang out with you even more. If you’re a downer while they’re around, or if you’re pessimistic or constantly complaining about things, a woman is going to want to run for the hills at the first chance she gets. Even if you’re nervous, focus on flirting with her and making her laugh. Smile, relax and remember to have fun. Show her a good time and make her feel like she’s the only girl in the room. If you do, it’s pretty much guaranteed that you’ll score a date with her.

You’ve Got To Do More Than Talk

While you may be able to talk a good game, that’s not the only thing you have to do if you want to keep women you want to be dating coming back to you for more. Use body language and gestures to show a woman that you’re really interested in her. For example, you can look in her eyes just a few seconds longer than is comfortable and touch her arm while she’s talking to you or you’re talking to her.

If things are going really well between you and a girl, don’t be afraid to take it a step further. If you and her seem to be really hitting it off, don’t be afraid to take a risk and go in for a kiss. Even if you get rejected 10 times out of 11, all that really mattered was that you got 1 “Yes!”

That Other Friends With Benefits

            A friend of mine whom I’ll call Marco (he's actually an ex of one of my friends) invited me to his place to watch a movie with him and his guy friend, who would sleep over at his house. I didn’t have plans that night and decided to go. We drank a few bottles of beer while watching Friends with Benefits on DVD. After the movie, his friend retired and went straight to the bedroom. Marco turned off the lights, leaving only the TV on. He then sat beside me and hugged me. He started kissing my neck, which made me feel hot. I kissed him on the lips down to his neck and slowly unzipped his pants.

          Things got really steamy from there. At one point, I moaned loud that I might have awoken his friend. I even thought I saw him watching us from one corner of the house but I wasn’t really sure if I was just having visions. Still Marco and I went on and tried different positions. After the whole act, we slept together on the couch. When we woke up the next morning, I caught his friend staring at me. I was about to go back to my house when he said, "It’s better to watch Friends with Benefits, LIVE.” My face turned red and LMAO.

Pain = Pleasure?

If you've been wondering where I disappeared to in the last couple of weeks, and if you are still waiting anxiously for my next post, fear not, I'm here, I'm alive, and I'm still sexy. LOL. Anyway, here's a story for you guys:

A friend of mine once had a vibrator stuck in his ass because he was devastated with the pain that it brought. I know this is not a very good introduction to what I will discuss to you but that is the reality of our topic. Anal sex, if not done properly, is not an enjoyable thing. I find it unfair for guys who want to penetrate a woman's rear then get really paranoid when it's their turn to be probed.  Some think inflicting pain is a no-no. Some, however, believe there is no pleasure without pain. And then some take it to the extremes and say, "PAIN=PLEASURE." Well, I believe one should try everything at least once to find out if it's for you or not.

I really wonder how come some guys have problems having any type of business in their bum holes except for number twos. Remember why Steve Stifler of American Pie loved it? He found the beauty induced by the fudge packer! Since you are so scared of anyone touching your heiny hole, allow me to help you get your first outstanding rim job. Tell your partner to read and learn. Oh, this is making me really excited!

CLEAR THE HOLE

Doing the "number 2" at least an hour or so on her part will make the passageway clean and clear and will ensure that nothing is encountered during any penetration (unless you're into that, I suppose). Bathe the area. I remember reading an advice coming from a porn star. She said before engaging in anal sex, don't eat beans for at least three days. I guess you know what that's for.

CLEAN UP!

Bathe before and after sex, my teacher in sex education used to say. Especially if you've agreed to your partner that "rimming" and/or "fudge packing" is a part of your itinerary. You don't want any brown thing surprising you before hitting the chocolate road, do you?

KEEP IT COATED

Use a condom. AIDS, STDs, gonorrhea, syphilis, genital warts, herpes, etc. can be transmitted through anal sex. You don't have to have "fudge" on your "tony," how much more acquiring these diseases?

GET WET-AND GREASY

The anus does not lubricate as much as a vagina, so please, for goodness sake, before you put something in there make sure you've got Vaseline or get the O' My Infinity silicone based lubricant.

TAKE IT SLOW

I remember before my first anal experience, my partner did the right thing by taking it slow, not shoving it all in there. Start by licking it first, then after a few rounds insert a finger. Let her be comfortable with it, then move on to bigger things.

RELAX

For anyone who hasn't done it, the tendency is to flex your bum hole because you are anticipating the penetration. DO NOT DO THIS. It's the same principle as getting injections: If you get your muscles tense it will hurt even more, so relax your hole and let it slide. It's not the first time something slides there, right? It's easy to have something sliding out, so it will be easy for you to have something sliding in.

IS IT PAINFUL?

Yes, especially if done the wrong way. Normally it's a little painful. It will give you a weird feeling—like you want to take a dump—but aroused at the same time. On your next attempts, you're probably going to love it more than I do.

TURN IT AROUND

To make her feel even more comfortable, you encourage her to play with you as well. Do the same thing to you because once that she knows you are also willing to what you'll subject her to, she will be more open to the idea. Anal sex is a great way to explore each other's bodies.

Enjoy, guys and girls! I really wish I could watch you apply these tricks!